Thursday, December 3, 2009

Should you use porn as a marital aid to enhance sex?

I saw an Oprah Winfrey show sometime last month that was about the growing number of women who are consumers of pornography. The show’s guests were normal women who use porn, plus an interview with famous porn star Jenna Jamison.

The general consensus of the guests was that they enjoy viewing porn and erotica, and that it did enhance their sexual activity.

Jamison’s contribution to the show was to talk about her career as a porn film star, and how she has stepped away from being on camera now since she has married and given birth to two babies. She’s still very proud of her film career, but now wonders if she will be accepted by other mothers…and how she will explain her career to her sons when they are old enough to ask.

Seems that, no matter who you are, your past can rear its head and affect your future.

It seems to me that if porn is being used by a couple together to create sexual arousal, it’s OK. If a couple views porn and attempt to mimic the behavior seen, OK. Even if a person is using porn for personal arousal, OK.

My title question used the word “should.” I don’t recommend that any couple SHOULD use porn. I just think that it can work if you both like it. I think that using a text reference such as the Kama Sutra can be just as effective if you want to spice up bedroom activity.

But, what you do in your bedroom is no one’s business but you and your lady.

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