Thursday, September 3, 2009

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We know sex is healthy, pleasurable and most important. Usually partners don’t mind going that extra mile to please their partners on bed. However there are some sexual demands we do not like fulfill. Everyone is different and so are their requirements. Men and women both have different set of demands regarding sex. It is important to know each other’s demands in order to fulfill them. Incase otherwise, when one is unaware of such a thing it can also ruin a good relationship between the two.

According to sex therapists, “Men need to be little more calm and patient and let women enter a comfort zone where they can undress sans any inhibitions. Expecting your mate to strip at once isn’t as simple as it may sound, so give her space, make her feel at ease and make it an enjoyable act. Maybe your lady is feeling shy; so turn off the lights and then tell her softly about your desire of getting a glimpse of her body.”

Men are turn on by visual effects. They expect their women to strip instantly in front of them. They are also wild at bed. They like rough. Whereas, women prefer it slow. They are unlike porn stars, to just strip and perform their moves as though it’s a duty to perform. Women too have few unspoken demands. They enjoy and crave for multiple orgasms. This is the most difficult demand to meet. It should be more about enjoying sex not concentrating of the orgasm all the time. Women also prefer a slow and steady moves leading to sex. Since women like more of cuddling being the emotional beings they are.

From the abstract:

Men and women have a different way of getting pleasure out of sex. Women are more romantic and slow. Men are more wild and adventurous. This tends to create some clashes between the two. Both need to understand each other and reach a solution somewhere in between. Men should not expect women to act completely wild like them and like a porn star. At the same time a lady should try to spice up the act by being a little bold enough. As Tony, creator of asurething.net says, “Feel like your sensuous to bring out the animal in you.”

Oral sex too should not be imposed, it should come naturally. Forced act would not give any enjoyment to any of the partners. So it’s best to do it with consensus of your partner. To find partners is not difficult. You can log on to http://www.asurething.net to find one. However to maintain the same energy and mood on bed is difficult.

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