If you look lust up in the dictionary all you find are the following words, “1. Obsolete A: pleasure, delight. B: personal inclination : wish 2. Intense or unbridled sexual desire: lasciviousness 3a. An intense longing: craving. 3b. Enthusiasm, eagerness”
Nowhere in the dictionary does it say that you will one day have to deal with being lusted after by a married man. It should have some sort of warning label next to it.
Don’t you think so?
I do.
I think life actually should come with an instruction booklet. Especially when it comes to lust and married men. As single girls we can go to a bookstore or a library and find books that will help us “land” the perfect husband, how to flirt “correctly” and how to have great sex. But nowhere in the bookstore or the library can you find books on how NOT to be the other woman or signs a married man is lusting after you.
Nope. You need to find out the hard way or find out until your heart is shattered and broken into a million pieces and there really isn’t anything you can do!
It would be one thing if the guy who is lusting after you would be up front and honest by telling you that he is married, unhappy, or that he just wants to know what its like to have hot sex. But it’s a totally another ballgame when he lies from the get-go and leads you astray. He leads you on a goose chase that you are NEVER going to win- ever!
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