Young Love

This is the most adorable picture of Penn Badgely and Blake Lively together. When I see pictures like this I always wonder if falling in love and finding the right person for you (at this moment), is this easy.

Personally I have never fell “in love” or been in such a serious relationship as to where I felt like I could spend my life with that person. Give me a break, I’m only 17. I guess in this generation people are “falling in love” sooner and harder then before. In the old days it was always people falling in love after dating for awhile, and the guys always did little romantic things to take the girls breath away. I wish this was the case now. Not saying that there aren’t those significant few who actually still do things like this, but there aren’t many. As we become more forward with each other and kids who are as young as 14 and 15 are entering into serious relationships to the point where they are entering into the are of losing their virginity, we should know that it’s time to slow down.

I’m not quite sure what is the “norm” for the first time you have your first kiss, to your first actual make out session, or the first time you actually hook up with a guy. I am for “young love” and kids thinking they have found their soul mates in their young relationships but I just wish that they would understand that they have their whole lives to venture into sex and doing sexual things with their partners. These kids are having sex for their first times younger and younger and their parents don’t even know. In no way am I bashing those people who have decided to have sex very young. I just wish that they were sure about who their first time was with and after the fact felt as if it was worth it. Feeling used and un wanted are not feelings that you should feel after losing the one thing that you can never get.

I apologize for this post becoming a little serious when it was originally going to only be about Blake and Penn’s adorable relationship. I tend to think of thins annd just go with it. So I went with it.

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