Friday, September 25, 2009

She's Not That Into You

I’m sure many of you caught the 2009 movie, He’s Just Not That Into You. The movie proved to be entertaining and down-right hilarious, not surprising at all, especially with such a star-studded cast including Jennifer Aniston, Scarlett Johansson, Ben Affleck, Drew Barrymore and Justin Long.

This film basically teaches us  what signs to look out for to tell if a guy  is a jerk is not interested in you. From a lady’s perspective, I’ll now tackle the signs that spell out: She’s not that into you.



10. She’s Always ‘Busy’.

She tells you she has to baby-sit, walk the dogs, take care of her grandma, or whatever it may be. If she is interested in you, she will make time for you.

9.  She Doesn’t Reply Your Text Messages

Self-explanatory.

8. She Doesn’t Facebook you.

Girls are generally very into Facebook-ing. They simply love it, and if they don’t Poke you, write on your wall, mention you in their status, or worse still add you as a friend, then you better give up.

7. She avoids any form of physical contact with you.

She clearly draws the line between friends and more-than-just-friends.

6. She’s Not Easily Amused

Girls have a tendency to giggle a lot when they are with a guy they like. They are enthusiastically interested in everything you say, they will laugh at all your jokes. But if you don’t get a response from her, it could only mean that she couldn’t care less.

5. She Talks About Her Crushes & Other Hot Guys

She probably doesn’t care about how you feel. And after all, she’s probably more in love with these other guys than she is with you.

4. She Never Introduces You To Friends or Family

If she sees you more than just a friend, she’ll be more than excited to show you off to her friends and let you meet her parents.

3. She Just Can’t Be Bothered.

You forget her birthday, an she just laughs it off. You arrive one hour late, but unlike how a normal girlfriend would act, she simply tells you off and forgets about it.

2. She Talks About Her Ex-Boyfriends

A girl who really likes you would know her limits. She wouldn’t want you to feel any sense of insecurity, and she’ll want to send the right signals to you to let you know she’s interested.

1. She Isn’t Very Lady-Like.

She’s not embarrassed if she ‘accidentally’ burps in front of you, nor does she practice any discretion with her language. You may even find her talking with her mouth full of food. And one thing you’ll notice is that she doesn’t bother dressing up for you.

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